Sibling Relationships - So Often, So Dark

It's a big empty spot in formal therapy as well as in self-help groups: an analysis of sibling relationships.

The trouble between royal brothers William and Harry likely began long before the latter broke away from the family. As the New York Post reports, the Platinium Jubilee didn't provide the opportunity for healing. William refused to meet alone with Harry. 

From my own experience with my younger sister Anne Murga-Ring, I don't anticipate that the two brothers will re-establish a relationship.

It was November 2003. That was the last time I and Murga-Ring had spoken. It was through a phone call. Several years later there had been an email from her to me about a personal situation. Too much time had passed for me to care. I didn't respond to that. Now and then, though, I have snail-mailed a greeting card to her. No response. 

For that reaching out I have regret. If only I had had a deeper understanding of the unique dark dynamics among siblings. I would probably never have made that phone call that chilly fall day to ask for help. No, no help came. Instead a posse managed to ride in from an organization to which I had belonged. 

Yes, both William and Harry likely feel righteous with their resentments. Over time, those are bound to keep hardening. I do not wish Murga-Ring well.

Connect with Editor-in-Chief Jane Genova at janegenova374@gmail.com. She helps businesses conjure up magic in their storytelling. One client said, "She makes shipping containers ‘sexy.’" 

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